Capt. Drunkey
King Of The Schnitzelwiesels
I suspect that a heterosexual attraction is far more complex
I beg to differ on that point, Marty: I think one of the facts that rips so many gay men (and women) apart inside IS the fact, that their psychological approach (all the points you shared) are part of their being; as it is of most heterosexual folks.
Being drawn towards the same gender does not exclude you from the desire to have a functioning family, kids etc. but since the basic situation is quite un-normal (and I agree it is) all those things are out of reach. Nevertheless they are still part of most human beings (except for some psychopaths maybe)…
To cope with realizing and admitting to yourself all the things you will miss out on in your life hurts big time. Do not let any rainbow-warrior tell you different. For most of them all that happy-go-lucky-appearance is nothing but camouflage.
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